“This is dedicate for my friend Q and atit!”
People say don’t play with fire if you don’t want to get burnt. The same with don’t fall in love if you are not ready to get hurt. But why it feels good? I think its because pain is addictive!Like a zit, we know if we crack it, it’ll leave mark and painful, but yet our hand are just can’t help touching it.
One of my friend said unless you’re a player don’t mess with love. Though we said were OK,we’re strong and WILL make it, think again! From my personal research its because women tend can’t control their emotion and everything that involve feelings will attached stronger thus if its not working it’ll hurt like hell and the marks will last forever. Stupid indeed for not using brain and always wasting so much emotion…but hey that’s women, IT DOESNT NEED A GENIUS TO FIGURE IT OUT.
Recently one of my friend come crying in the middle of the night, telling me that the guy she’s been dating for months are about to get married in a week! the others has doing an affair with a guy that has been in relationship plus engage for 8 eight years with other women, and recently my boss confessed that she has an affair with one of my colleague and it almost cost her,her 10 years marriage. But despite all the tears and all, they keep doing it.What makes me so angry because the reasons are just as stupid.
Reason # 1 is Challenge! What!!??!! Do bungee jumping or parasailing for crying out loud! I mean like seriously dude move on, get a decent guy and have a normal relationship!
I know that love struck in unexpected time and condition but YOU (woman) can control it! Who has the power to stop it and not letting those crap growing!
#2 “maybe we were meant to be together!” Well guess what princess, prince charming ain’t coming with other women as a package!
Reason #3 came from my own sister, she said she do it because she wants it, that’s all! Its quite disturb and pause me for few minutes, I mean what a selfish little shit!look at the other women, quote again from my gay friend harry “karma exist and it’ll hunt you down like a hawk” aren’t you afraid one day you, your daughter or your sister will suffer the karma? And aren’t you tired waiting in vain!?
Will he call?
Will he think about me?
Will he drop by?
Is he love me more?
Will he marry me?
Well guess what? You’re boyfriend are prolly fucking happily with the other girl by now.
So snap out of it!
I keep wondering what is so good about that? I mean you are always on guard, can’t go publicly cause somebody might see, suppress your emotion and jealousy, sharing bed with other women, and praying every night to God so that he will eventually realize that you’re the only person for him and no one else..
Here’s the truth, it will not happen because guys are just guys!
Well ok maybe there IS good guy out there –see how optimist I am?– but for these cheating bastards your prayers will only be answered if some life changing event occurs which involving death, amputation or serious accident and its only happen one over a million case or in cheap soap opera.
Believe me honey you don’t need a scar to remind you not to go to far! All you have to do is THINK! Use a little bit of your common sense…(Maybe to some of you its quite difficult cause love toxic has completely paralyzed your brain and thinking ability, but you can do it! Cause guess what?brain are actually created so that you can THINK! Tell your brain to start working or there will be no sex thoughts and masturbation for years,there’ll be no more naked jude law or hartnett –it’ll freak the devil out–)
Maybe at this point you think who the hell is this girl?trying to advise me while maybe she never felt anything deep before, in this case YOU RIGHT!
Why? Because I’m only a coward who knows my capability and I just can’t dealt with that crap so I avoid it. Well at least this guy-proof-vest is working well and I never been hurt badly (hopefully will never).
My suggest stay out of it! Just so that you know Over 75% of people who marry partners from an affair eventually divorce.(Hein, Holly. Sexual Detours: Infidelity and Intimacy at the Crossroads.)
Again…the choice is yours….